Home Is...

"Home is a place not only of strong affections, but of entire unreserve; it is life's undress rehearsal, its backroom, its dressing room." - Harriet Beecher Stowe, novelist and humanitarian

I find this quote to be an interesting take on the definition of "home". I'm not sure how to interpret it to be perfectly honest. It certainly has me thinking though.

The phrase that got my attention is "entire unreserve". I have noticed that my behavior towards those I am closest to is not always the best it could be. It's not pretty when I act in an unreserved manner. When I am under stress, I tend to treat my family and closest friends with less kindness and tolerance.  Why is that?  I seem to "let loose" on them which isn't fair at all. I've had friends tell me that they are the same way with their family members and close friends as well.  I've really struggled with this for many years.

I need to focus on treating EVERYONE in my life with the same respect and care, no matter who it is. All of the people in my life, those close to me and those who are just acquaintances, deserve the best of me. I don't have to let the stress in my life affect my behavior towards anyone.

Love is the only force in my life today. I see the beauty in all people today. I believe that there is a Spirit in each and every person on earth - it's my responsibility to acknowledge that Spirit and to respect that Spirit in every interaction, no matter what.

I don't think this posting has much to do with the quote above, but this is what has come to mind after reading the quote. Therefore, I think I'll just leave it as is. Sorry if it's a little off topic today. :)