Reason And Purpose

"We are not powerless specks of dust drifting around in the wind, blown by random destiny. We are, each of us, like beautiful snowflakes - unique, and born for a specific reason and purpose." - Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, psychiatrist and writer

I like being unique.  I get to be me.  It wasn't always that way for me.  I wanted to be anything but me.  I used to fantasize about being whisked away by someone who would take care of me for the rest of my life.  I dreamt that I would live happily ever after.  I really didn't have very good coping skills for life so dreaming was my way of escape.  Of course, I wasn't rescued or whisked away.  I was "forced" to find my own way.

Thankfully, I am able to be fully present in my life today.  In trying to find my own way, I found a relationship with God.  And that led me to some great friendships with people who were also seeking relationships with God.  I don't have to fantasize today.  I have a wonderful life.  I've learned what my specific reason is in life - to help others in whatever they may need.  I believe that's the only thing I need to do with my life - help others.  I don't always feel generous or giving but I've come to understand that real success comes from being there when someone needs me.  Personally, I think that's all God wants from me.  I can do that.  I may not do it perfectly every day but I give it my best shot.  I get so much in return.  It's a great deal, really it is!

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